Forbidden
Dark Fruit
With all my opinions and remarks that I carry proudly in my mouth, I never found myself judging my friends. Whatever they do, I always try to be sympathetic. Understanding. Always reviewing their thoughts and actions in their shoes. But, recently, one of my friends made a statement that drove me completely up the wall. I almost felt like breaking the teh ais glass which I clenched in my hands. And the statement is:
It's damn easy to seduce married men.
Ok, perhaps its not really the statement, because it's a known fact that we (men) can be easily seduced. Even our champion Adam could not resist Eve's lure. But it was the fact that she and her friend seemed completely proud of their actions. As if their experiences merit some sort of an achievement, which I find completely sickening. Even poisonous.
Yes, it takes two to do the destructive dance. Or tango. But, in this case, there's no fucking trophy with it. Kapish?
posted by Muddy at 9:33 PM
28 Comments:
chick arse :
Yeah, I love them (my friends), but the fact they felt sooooo proud of what they did, I simply had to object...
ERmmm why it is so easy to get laid... especially for a married man? One time, I was in a pub, minding my own business..... I overheard and saw the group nearby, where a hostess, asked loudly, "Which one of you is married?", and I saw one person put up his hand. To the amusement and shock of his other friends, the hostess sat beside him! Ermmm.... lucky married men!
Wisdom of the day," Do not judge others, as one day it will be you being judge!". And u may not enjoy or like it.....
dade ghost :
You know how some of us (men) are driven by hard-to-get girls? Well, according to my female colleague, some women are driven by the same challenge with married men. They like to feel accomplished, especially when their prey submits...
And exactly when can you judge others? Especially when you truly believe that the deed is wrong...
Izzit really about the hard to get?Well maybe it adds up some thrills to it...but then again, maybe ppl just wanna go for the one with the experience/wisdom whateva u called it...but the forbidden fruit is definately a huge factor.After all, human always lust for sth forbidden...
i think the attraction is because you know the fling can't go any further. It's just for fun. It is still wrong though.
i see you and chick arse are getting along fine now? hehe..
yeah! what does your friend mean by that? what about us single men? arent we easy too??????? heh
aaah. The power of seduction. I do have one friend like dat too. What can I say? When she starts to open her 'acheivement' story during our outings, I never comment. *zipped*
Sometimes I think she doesnt mean it consciously... sort of part of who she is. But it's amazing how guys just fall at her feet. Amazing!
But no one wins and worse, the guy stand to loose everything!
they say married man is a better talker (in malay "pandai memujuk").. or maybe the experienced?
yeah, i also dun understand why hurting another woman..
maybe they dun believe in Karma.
Well well well.
Let me tell you why most chicks dig married men. They give you space. You dont need needy whiny guys obssesing about this and that (looks at roadie). Married men are simpler to handle, they go back to their wive(s). In today's world, women are independent, they do not want to answer to questions like "where are you going?" or "who is that guy". It is not they do not want affection but they want to be understood. Married men would 'do' their best to understand because they have a lot to loose. Single men would say "go to hell with her, PMS again, I can find others".
Have you and chick arse made peace?
I cannot, cannot stand women (or even men, for that matter) who think it's okay to seduce others who are already committed to a relationship and then refuse to accept ANY blame for their role. What does that say about character?
Pesa :
Hey pal, thanks for dropping by! :) but I have to disagree...exactly how much wiser can you be after seducing a married man/woman? I don't think it is wise. Sorry to say (and no offence), but I think it is simply studid...
Kepala Angin :
Hey, there, how are you? :) Anyway, perhaps it is just for fun. But, if it is fun and thrills a person one, perhaps a better alternative is to sky dive or go wall climbing...now, THAT's fun!
Theroadie :
Hahahahah...yeah, I have no clue who chick arse is, but since she came with peace, i accept with open arms...
and DUDE! hahahahah...are you telling me you're easy too??? :P
Inn :
Hey babe, how was the wedding? :) Anyway, "sort of part of who she is"...are you telling me what you are telling me? hehehehe...
shell :
hey shell. :) and better talker??? well, yeah, they are just full of steam. no action...hehehehe. And yeah, karma has its way of coming back times three. Scary...
Cherzleen :
Hey, thanks for dropping by! :) No offence, but I simply have to disagree. Married men are simpler to handle? Do you honestly believe that? Because, really...I have faith in womenkind. I don't think that they would purposely meddle in other's household just simply because they receive a kick out of it. Don't these women think about how the wives feel? or the kids? All I can say is that these women don't think. And that is outright cruel of them...
Elina :
hahahah...you too huh? yeah, i guess i made peace with chick arse (whoever she may be...) :)
And HORRAY! for character! Bet you have tons of it. :))
what am i telling you again? :)hahahahah!
please lah, i know tons of philandering married men, who despite having enough on their hands w/ the missus and kids, are still insanely jealous and possesive over their mistresses, if not moreso due to their middle aged insecurities (balding, beer belly, can't get it up, etc).
it has nothing to do w/ married men being more understanding or more experienced. its all about the challenge and the conquest.
we always want what we can't have.
Inn :
Huhuhu...the description of your seducing friend, and how you said it is "sort of part of who she is"...heheheh...it is a nicer way to describe her, than calling her a sl*t. Whoops, just thinking out loud! :P
Khaylis :
I AGREE! Thank God you feel the same why I do. I mean, why should there be any justification to why women seduce married men/married men cheating on wives/cheaters and seducers feeling accomplished? It's just wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong!
Sounds like they have a history in seducing married men. Am I right in saying it wasn't simply a statement?
I remembered watching Will Smith on Oprah. He said, the number of women who try to hit on him multiplied greatly after he got married. So the best way to get a lot of women to hit on you(men)is to get married right away. The best pick up line that Will Smith ever gotten was "Anytime. Anywhere. Anything." lol.
And it's all about the challenge to 'conquer' men, commitment-phobe issue(or shall i say, commitment-free) and having the feeling of being powerful when someone finally succumbs to her wants that makes some women seduce married men, I think. Some humans are just weird in that way. They thrive on others' miseries.
Sorry, forgot to mention my comment was addressing Muddy's original post.
Han :
Yeah, if their history was written into text books, it would translate into three thick ones. Huhuhuhu...anyway, yeah, it ain't just a statement. It's ludacris!
Pojan :
Yeah, managed to catch that episode. Don't get me wrong, I really like Mr Smith, but when he made that statement, I kinda thought he was full of himself. And isn't it clear as day that if other women are chasing him, its not because he is married, but because of his bank account? Hmmm...
And agree. Some people are just too weird.
Random-girl :
Oooooo, your comeback! It's hot, pedas hot! No wonder they shut up after that...huhuhuhu...
It's not the fault of your friends. The men are allowing themselves to be in the position to be seduced.
Nobody is ever seduced, who doesn't want to be.
-A
Argus :
hey, thanks for dropping by! :) and yeah, there's fault behind these men. But, i don't think we should simply dismiss the seducer as well. It takes two to make this wrong...
I still say it's more wrong for the married man. He has commitments and promises to live up to. The seducer does not. It is the responsibility of those in the position to keep themselves out of situations where their best intentions are left behind in the heat of passion.
But bragging about the seducing, well, that's just crass.
-A
I want to say this to your friend, "Of course it's easy darling, since you're a free pussy." But I am nice like that, so I would just say, "Oh ok." and goes back to shit.
aiyah, this whole issue is so salah. amazing how instinct can make grown-ups act like kids.
Argus :
Since you put it that way, I agree. But I stand in my opinion that there's also fault in the seducer; her purpose to win is simply ruthless.
And yeah, agreed. ;) Completely and utter crass.
vlad :
Huhuhuhu...since you put it that way, I do believe that advertising their experiences is like advertising their free goods. (I am so bad...)
disco-very :
yeah, totally salah. but it is amazing that some people don't see it my way (which is cool and unbelievable at the same time...)
Are married man more lonly than unmarried ones?
one thing for sure it is hard for an unmarried bloke to get laid *ahem*... This studies is killing my brain cells.. addios
lilgrass :
hey, thanks for dropping by! :) As to your question, i can't answer that. i am not married yet, so i can't make an opinion without sounding baseless. and to generalize is not my style. but, yeah, there will always lonely people. its how they act upon this loneliness that differentiates their characters...
a true virgo :
Haahhahah...no lah pal. it's not that hard to get laid if you are single lah man. it takes effort, style, and protection. that's all...hahahaha...
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