Saturday, June 04, 2005


Dark Fruit

With all my opinions and remarks that I carry proudly in my mouth, I never found myself judging my friends. Whatever they do, I always try to be sympathetic. Understanding. Always reviewing their thoughts and actions in their shoes. But, recently, one of my friends made a statement that drove me completely up the wall. I almost felt like breaking the teh ais glass which I clenched in my hands. And the statement is:

It's damn easy to seduce married men.

Ok, perhaps its not really the statement, because it's a known fact that we (men) can be easily seduced. Even our champion Adam could not resist Eve's lure. But it was the fact that she and her friend seemed completely proud of their actions. As if their experiences merit some sort of an achievement, which I find completely sickening. Even poisonous.

Yes, it takes two to do the destructive dance. Or tango. But, in this case, there's no fucking trophy with it. Kapish?


Blogger chick arse said...

....well.....its true...these men never seem to learn, and its quite degradable of these women to be casual and laid-back, heck..proud even,of their achievements to lure these ruthless men.society has changed to rather shameless satyr and thats sad

2:16 AM  
Blogger Muddy said...

chick arse :

Yeah, I love them (my friends), but the fact they felt sooooo proud of what they did, I simply had to object...

8:51 PM  
Blogger Dade Ghost said...

ERmmm why it is so easy to get laid... especially for a married man? One time, I was in a pub, minding my own business..... I overheard and saw the group nearby, where a hostess, asked loudly, "Which one of you is married?", and I saw one person put up his hand. To the amusement and shock of his other friends, the hostess sat beside him! Ermmm.... lucky married men!

Wisdom of the day," Do not judge others, as one day it will be you being judge!". And u may not enjoy or like it.....

9:16 PM  
Blogger Muddy said...

dade ghost :

You know how some of us (men) are driven by hard-to-get girls? Well, according to my female colleague, some women are driven by the same challenge with married men. They like to feel accomplished, especially when their prey submits...

And exactly when can you judge others? Especially when you truly believe that the deed is wrong...

9:44 PM  
Blogger Pesa said...

Izzit really about the hard to get?Well maybe it adds up some thrills to it...but then again, maybe ppl just wanna go for the one with the experience/wisdom whateva u called it...but the forbidden fruit is definately a huge factor.After all, human always lust for sth forbidden...

11:09 PM  
Blogger kepala_angin said...

i think the attraction is because you know the fling can't go any further. It's just for fun. It is still wrong though.

11:31 PM  
Blogger Pantani's 2nd Cousin said...

i see you and chick arse are getting along fine now? hehe..

yeah! what does your friend mean by that? what about us single men? arent we easy too??????? heh

11:46 PM  
Blogger Inn said...

aaah. The power of seduction. I do have one friend like dat too. What can I say? When she starts to open her 'acheivement' story during our outings, I never comment. *zipped*

Sometimes I think she doesnt mean it consciously... sort of part of who she is. But it's amazing how guys just fall at her feet. Amazing!

But no one wins and worse, the guy stand to loose everything!

12:52 AM  
Blogger shell said...

they say married man is a better talker (in malay "pandai memujuk").. or maybe the experienced?

yeah, i also dun understand why hurting another woman..

maybe they dun believe in Karma.

1:15 AM  
Blogger Cherzleen said...

Well well well.

Let me tell you why most chicks dig married men. They give you space. You dont need needy whiny guys obssesing about this and that (looks at roadie). Married men are simpler to handle, they go back to their wive(s). In today's world, women are independent, they do not want to answer to questions like "where are you going?" or "who is that guy". It is not they do not want affection but they want to be understood. Married men would 'do' their best to understand because they have a lot to loose. Single men would say "go to hell with her, PMS again, I can find others".

1:50 AM  
Blogger Elina said...

Have you and chick arse made peace?

I cannot, cannot stand women (or even men, for that matter) who think it's okay to seduce others who are already committed to a relationship and then refuse to accept ANY blame for their role. What does that say about character?

8:13 AM  
Blogger Muddy said...

Pesa :

Hey pal, thanks for dropping by! :) but I have to disagree...exactly how much wiser can you be after seducing a married man/woman? I don't think it is wise. Sorry to say (and no offence), but I think it is simply studid...

Kepala Angin :

Hey, there, how are you? :) Anyway, perhaps it is just for fun. But, if it is fun and thrills a person one, perhaps a better alternative is to sky dive or go wall, THAT's fun!

Theroadie :

Hahahahah...yeah, I have no clue who chick arse is, but since she came with peace, i accept with open arms...

and DUDE! hahahahah...are you telling me you're easy too??? :P

5:54 PM  
Blogger Muddy said...

Inn :

Hey babe, how was the wedding? :) Anyway, "sort of part of who she is"...are you telling me what you are telling me? hehehehe...

shell :

hey shell. :) and better talker??? well, yeah, they are just full of steam. no action...hehehehe. And yeah, karma has its way of coming back times three. Scary...

Cherzleen :

Hey, thanks for dropping by! :) No offence, but I simply have to disagree. Married men are simpler to handle? Do you honestly believe that? Because, really...I have faith in womenkind. I don't think that they would purposely meddle in other's household just simply because they receive a kick out of it. Don't these women think about how the wives feel? or the kids? All I can say is that these women don't think. And that is outright cruel of them...

Elina : too huh? yeah, i guess i made peace with chick arse (whoever she may be...) :)

And HORRAY! for character! Bet you have tons of it. :))

6:07 PM  
Blogger Inn said...

what am i telling you again? :)hahahahah!

6:15 PM  
Blogger P. Kay said...

please lah, i know tons of philandering married men, who despite having enough on their hands w/ the missus and kids, are still insanely jealous and possesive over their mistresses, if not moreso due to their middle aged insecurities (balding, beer belly, can't get it up, etc).

it has nothing to do w/ married men being more understanding or more experienced. its all about the challenge and the conquest.

we always want what we can't have.

7:39 PM  
Blogger Muddy said...

Inn :

Huhuhu...the description of your seducing friend, and how you said it is "sort of part of who she is" is a nicer way to describe her, than calling her a sl*t. Whoops, just thinking out loud! :P

Khaylis :

I AGREE! Thank God you feel the same why I do. I mean, why should there be any justification to why women seduce married men/married men cheating on wives/cheaters and seducers feeling accomplished? It's just wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong!

9:05 PM  
Blogger Han said...

Sounds like they have a history in seducing married men. Am I right in saying it wasn't simply a statement?

9:21 PM  
Blogger Pojan said...

I remembered watching Will Smith on Oprah. He said, the number of women who try to hit on him multiplied greatly after he got married. So the best way to get a lot of women to hit on you(men)is to get married right away. The best pick up line that Will Smith ever gotten was "Anytime. Anywhere. Anything." lol.

And it's all about the challenge to 'conquer' men, commitment-phobe issue(or shall i say, commitment-free) and having the feeling of being powerful when someone finally succumbs to her wants that makes some women seduce married men, I think. Some humans are just weird in that way. They thrive on others' miseries.

2:21 AM  
Blogger Han said...

Sorry, forgot to mention my comment was addressing Muddy's original post.

5:34 AM  
Blogger random-girl said...

It's damn easy to seduce married men

As soon as I read that I laughed. I've heard it so many times from a few of my proud "friends". And my comeback is the same everytime.

If it's so damn easy, why do you put yourself down to that level?

Shuts them up. Everytime.

9:08 AM  
Blogger Muddy said...

Han :

Yeah, if their history was written into text books, it would translate into three thick ones. Huhuhuhu...anyway, yeah, it ain't just a statement. It's ludacris!

Pojan :

Yeah, managed to catch that episode. Don't get me wrong, I really like Mr Smith, but when he made that statement, I kinda thought he was full of himself. And isn't it clear as day that if other women are chasing him, its not because he is married, but because of his bank account? Hmmm...

And agree. Some people are just too weird.

Random-girl :

Oooooo, your comeback! It's hot, pedas hot! No wonder they shut up after that...huhuhuhu...

6:49 AM  
Blogger Wardo said...

It's not the fault of your friends. The men are allowing themselves to be in the position to be seduced.

Nobody is ever seduced, who doesn't want to be.


1:30 PM  
Blogger Muddy said...

Argus :

hey, thanks for dropping by! :) and yeah, there's fault behind these men. But, i don't think we should simply dismiss the seducer as well. It takes two to make this wrong...

5:49 PM  
Blogger Wardo said...

I still say it's more wrong for the married man. He has commitments and promises to live up to. The seducer does not. It is the responsibility of those in the position to keep themselves out of situations where their best intentions are left behind in the heat of passion.

But bragging about the seducing, well, that's just crass.


6:14 PM  
Blogger Vlad said...

I want to say this to your friend, "Of course it's easy darling, since you're a free pussy." But I am nice like that, so I would just say, "Oh ok." and goes back to shit.

7:29 PM  
Blogger disco-very said...

aiyah, this whole issue is so salah. amazing how instinct can make grown-ups act like kids.

7:30 PM  
Blogger Muddy said...

Argus :

Since you put it that way, I agree. But I stand in my opinion that there's also fault in the seducer; her purpose to win is simply ruthless.

And yeah, agreed. ;) Completely and utter crass.

vlad :

Huhuhuhu...since you put it that way, I do believe that advertising their experiences is like advertising their free goods. (I am so bad...)

disco-very :

yeah, totally salah. but it is amazing that some people don't see it my way (which is cool and unbelievable at the same time...)

11:05 PM  
Blogger lilgrass said...

Are married man more lonly than unmarried ones?

12:26 AM  
Blogger A true Virgo said...

one thing for sure it is hard for an unmarried bloke to get laid *ahem*... This studies is killing my brain cells.. addios

7:34 PM  
Blogger Muddy said...

lilgrass :

hey, thanks for dropping by! :) As to your question, i can't answer that. i am not married yet, so i can't make an opinion without sounding baseless. and to generalize is not my style. but, yeah, there will always lonely people. its how they act upon this loneliness that differentiates their characters...

a true virgo : lah pal. it's not that hard to get laid if you are single lah man. it takes effort, style, and protection. that's all...hahahaha...

5:59 PM  

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